Please help

[laport2018]

Not to scare me to stay in the relationship but she says when I kick u out of the country then you would realise a favour I did to you which is worth a million dollar. She wants me to pay her or give her full house under her name which we share 50/50.

I’m really sorry that you are going through this, my suggestion to you is to seek out legal advice . I wish you all the best of luck in Canada and please know that you have rights

 

[babsizkil]

Not to scare me to stay in the relationship but she says when I kick u out of the country then you would realise a favour I did to you which is worth a million dollar. She wants me to pay her or give her full house under her name which we share 50/50.

You have right to life and freedom like everyone. Ignore her threat. Do everything to make her happy in anyway you can. She's a woman. Therefore, she will always demand more from you. Even, when she filed a complain that the relationship isn't genuine. She's also a party to it. Get advice from marriage counsellor. You can even file a complain with appropriate authority. That will serve as your defence.

 

[laport2018]

You have right to life and freedom like everyone. Ignore her threat. Do everything to make her happy in anyway you can. She's a woman. Therefore, she will always demand more from you. Even, when she filed a complain that the relationship isn't genuine. She's also a party to it. Get advice from marriage counsellor. You can even file a complain with appropriate authority. That will serve as your defence.

Not all women demand ..... just saying

 

[jddd]

Not all women demand ..... just saying

Agreed. @babsizkil should be careful about generalizing genders.

My spouse, as an example, has been 100% open about me being able to keep my status even if we separate. Her point is not because she thinks we will separate but because she wants me to know that her sponsorship of me does not mean I owe her anything.

To OP, nothing to be scared of so long as your relationship was genuine.

 

[laport2018]

Agreed. @babsizkil should be careful about generalizing genders.

My spouse, as an example, has been 100% open about me being able to keep my status even if we separate. Her point is not because she thinks we will separate but because she wants me to know that her sponsorship of me does not mean I owe her anything.

To OP, nothing to be scared of so long as your relationship was genuine.

As a woman And as the sponsor I 100% agree . Thank you

 

[babsizkil]

Not all women demand ..... just saying

I agree. I never doubt that. It can come from any partner.

 

[babsizkil]

Not all women demand ..... just saying

I agree. I'm only making suggestion based on the OP situation. It can happen from both gender/partner. We can't rule it out as Canada is immigrants country.

 

[scylla]

YShe's a woman. Therefore, she will always demand more from you.

Seriously? That's a pretty offensive generalization.

 

[babsizkil]

Seriously? That's a pretty offensive generalization.

I apologize if that seems offensive.

 

[waitingtoheartoo]

I agree. I'm only making suggestion based on the OP situation. It can happen from both gender/partner. We can't rule it out as Canada is immigrants country.

Actually no, Canada is not an immigrants country. Very offensive to a Canadian Citizen who has seen several changes over time to “accommodate” other cultures. Be careful of your choice of words.....or maybe I’m just a demanding female .

 

[canuck_in_uk]

I apologize if that seems offensive.

It doesn't "seem offensive". It IS offensive. You made a grossly sexist generalization about women.

 

[scylla]

I apologize if that seems offensive.

This is an offensive response. Better not to have responded at all. Using the word "seems" means the problem is not in your comment, but in how I preceived it - meaning you did nothing wrong and I am overreacting as a woman.

Anyway - I'm done here.

 

[Copingwithlife]

It doesn't "seem offensive". It IS offensive. You made a grossly sexist generalization about women.

On the flip side, I worked at the airport in Toronto for close to 30 years in public contact. If I could count the number of times men were verbally abusive to either female agents or to their spouses in public I’d be an extremely wealthy person. If they were verbally abusive in public, I shudder, truly shudder ,on how they treated women either privately or in their work positions.

 

[canuck78]

Thankful to be in Canada where women can be making the same amount or more as men. Where men can be the stay at home parent if it is what works for the family. My friend is going through a divorce and is a senior executive while her husband is unemployed due to his failed business. She kept the house since she paid for the house. She also pays for all the childcare and other expenses although they share custody 50/50. He is dragging out the divorce as long as possible to waste money and to receive as much spousal support as possible. Works both ways.