Hey RBV, relax, and enjoy the time that you have. I would recommend that you put the time you have to good use.
- study something to further your career or learn a life skill like carpentry or gardening to enhance your life once you head over.
- spend time with family and friends (especially ones who don't keep asking if you have any news so that they can gloat over you still waiting).
- look at doing some freelance or honorary work with an NGO. If you are in IT/software pick up open-source projects that can use your expertise and add that to your skillset.
Whatever you do, don't lose hope, there are lots of people in this waiting game. Just be the hero you need to be, for yourself. No need to prove a point to anyone else.
BTW. we are a family of three and are still waiting. Five days left to join the elite club. VO is Sydney, and we have an RR on eligibility.
Cheers.
(edited for grammar)