Well I am also in a same situation....I have also been delaying my marriage because of this situation and i also did a lot of research just to be sure about the option of how to get married then I came across this video "
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Before taking any decision, I would suggest all those who are about to get married to go through this video
From my few friends experiences I know that sponsoring a spouse is quite difficult and takes a lot of time from around 1 to 1.5 years that is the reason I have decided to marry after getting COPR, no matter it will take around 2 to 3 months but at least at the end we will be going together and will not have to go through all the hurdles and situations alone in a foreign place
Again that's my opinion and just an advice to you all...decide carefully for yourself...thank you